Busiest month for student life

As a degree part-time student, it is quite tough for me on time management. There would be okay if the assignment were released earlier which expected. But this semester, students had encountered chasing time-to-time. The classes were even squeezed shorter from 3+ months to 2+ months.Time packed. Late released of assignment, earlier assignment due date and 3 complicated assignment. Finally, BE class came to the end and FM class next week will be the last week. There are left MM class but the individual assignment don't even start yet need to do and amend another 2 assignment. Luckily for the group assignment, group member were co-operated but of course there will be have one who are not co-operated. My BE assignment come to last part which is some amendment and FM assignment left some analyzing and also a bit of amendment. Yup.. What should I say? Of course Thanks God!! God always with me what! I'm blessed, my family's blessed, my friends' blessed... all is utilitarian to Lord!! Is Thee support me always, is Thee comfort me when I am down, is Thee help me whenever I need Thee.is Thee make my bad encounter to good memorable story.. I love my Abba Father!! Amen!!!

In this coming December, I could finished my assignment and submit it on time. December, is a playful month for me. J is coming back for half month, assignment completely finish and submitted, Anthony coming back, X'mas day is coming, house-warming and parties are coming as well. See, is this my playful month? I prefer these as my bonus of life..^^     

Going to 2 wedding dinner on next week which is Jazz and Mandy's reception. Congrats to them, wish them stay happiness, healthy and wealthy...

I'm going to update my blog soon. Looking forward into it...

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熬过，我们就结婚了

有位心理学家曾写道，一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段，那就是：共存、反依赖、怀疑、共生，之间转换所需的时间不一定，因人而易。

第一个阶段：共存。这是热恋时期，不论何时何地总希望能腻在一起。

第二个阶段：反依赖。一方想多一点时间做自己想做的事，这时另一方就会感到被冷落，总是因为一点小事去计较和数落。

第三个阶段：怀疑。这是第二个阶段的延续，要求更多独立自主的时间，总是觉得对自己不好了，没以前爱自己了。

第四个阶段：共生。这时新的相处之道成形，你们已经成为最亲密的人。你们在一起相互扶持、一起开创属于你们人生你们在一起不会互相牵绊，而会互相成长，他（她）就像是你的亲人。

但是，好多人都通不过第二或第三阶段，选择分手。其实很多事只要好好沟通就会没事，可是想太多和任性就是无法避免。

世界上遇到唯一的你多么不容易，能不能不要轻言放弃。

你发现了吗？你们本没有相同之处，外表不相像，性格也是南辕北辙，但是相爱然后在一起，日复一日，年复一年，你会惊讶你的眼睛竟有点像他的眼睛。他的微笑 竟也有点像你的微笑。你们走路的步伐变得相似。你们说话的语气也愈来愈像。你们爱喝同一杯饮料。你们的口头禅变得一样。你们总能猜到对方下一句话是什么。 原来我们会变成我们所爱的人。

你在不知不觉中让他改掉了他爱皱眉的坏习惯。这个改变，或许连他自己也不曾察觉。他在不知不觉中让你变得做事不再马马虎虎。你差点认不出自己。会在不知不 觉中逐渐变成对方理想中的人，这种改变，绝对不是刻意的。两个人相处时间越久，气质也越相近，有一天你惊讶地发现，这样的你们多么默契。

或许再也遇不到这样的感情。深深爱着一个人的时候，你原来真的会一点一点失去自己，可是为什么你还会觉得快乐呢。大概是因为你在失去的同时，也赚了，你把他的气质和他的微笑都赚回来了。

朋友，你们走到哪个阶段了？世界上遇到唯一的你多么不容易，能不能不要轻言放弃。能不能一直走下去。请不要说下辈子，我多怕下辈子再遇不到你。所以就这辈子，就让我们一直在一起走下去。